Have you ever wondered why your relationship is the way it is? Have you ever wondered why your partner doesn’t show you much love or take you very seriously like you do them? This only means that you are in a relationship with yourself. You may be wondering how and why this is possible. Here are some signs that you are dating yourself:
- WHEN HE OR SHE REFUSES TO TAKE PICTURES WITH YOU
It isn’t always the best to bring your relationship to social media for a whole lot of reasons but at least you must take one or more pictures with the one you love and use them as your profile picture(on WhatsApp) once in a while. If your partner refuses to take pictures with you, or whenever you initiate the act, they dodge or find one silly excuse as to why they cannot take pictures with you, don’t be deceived. You are dating yourself.
- WHEN HE ISN’T THERE FOR YOU
One of the reasons people go into the relationships is to have company, someone they can confide in, a shoulder to lean on. When your partner isn’t emotionally available for you but never fails to ask you for money or sex, just call it quits because you are dating yourself. If you are in a relationship and you cannot unleash your burden, you cannot share what’s bothering you either because they do not care or they aren’t just there, walk away and find a replacement.
Most times you could be the one initiating chats or be the one calling most of the time. These are all signs you should walk away.
As earlier stated, if your relationship is all about sex, if he or she calls you or shows you love only to ask for sex later, then you are dating yourself.
Before you get into any relationship, remember that not everyone wants love or friendship, they may be after sex or money. Be wise and don’t get hurt.